Today I heard in the radio for a one-minute talk from a pastor about:
Don't offer comments or concern to the unwise, or else they will hate you or do bad things to you. If you offer comments or concern to the wise, they thank you for that, because they feel they can learn things from you to better themselves
I wonder what the original writing in the Bible was? I think I did make the mistake of offering comments to anybody, and many people hate me for it. Somehow in the 80s or 90s in Silicon Valley, I found if I offered comment to people, many felt grateful about it. Nowadays when I offer comments, it is the opposite.