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After much editing and clarifying through comments this question seems to have asked and had answered from Catholic perspective why Mary stayed a virgin throughout her pregnancy.

Yet many Christians do not agree with perpetual virginity doctrine but still agree that Mary did remain virgin until after giving birth based on Matthew 1:25:

And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name JESUS (KJV).

What biblical reasons are there for the necessity of Mary refraining from sexual relations with Joseph during the time she was carrying the baby Jesus?

  • One thing to note is that a Catholic could accept a purely Biblical answer to the linked question, if it were sourced as a Catholic interpretation of the Bible (so you could get a 2-fer with minor tweaks) But here you'd have to explain why your doctrine is consistent with your interpretation. @kris Mightn't this just be speculation that people who hold this viewpoint actually exist? – Peter Turner Jan 26 '18 at 22:39
  • @PeterTurner which viewpoint do you refer too? – Kris Jan 26 '18 at 22:52
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    @Flimzy People who believe in the virgin birth of Christ. – aska123 Jan 27 '18 at 12:57
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    @aska123: People believe that because the Bible said it happened. That does not imply that it is somehow "necessary." But this question is examining the claim of necessity, so I'm asking where that claim is made. – Flimzy Jan 27 '18 at 13:01
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    @Flimzy if you want to answer that it was not necessary with biblical support that would be fine. It seems that most Christians believe it was necessary. I’m asking non Catholics why – Kris Jan 27 '18 at 13:16
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Ever-virgin dogma is the belief that Mary was a virgin during pregnancy, during birth, and after Christ's birth in her marriage to Joseph.

Whether one submits to this Papal dogma or is someone who believes that Christ was born normally or Mary/Joseph had sex and children sometime after His birth, they both, indeed all Christians, believe the prophecy that the virgin would conceive and bear a son.

Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel. Isaiah 7:14

The virgin will CONCEIVE (get pregnant) and the virgin will BEAR (bring forth, travail, deliver). Two-pronged prophecy: Conceive and give birth as a virgin.

IOW, even the same question posed for a Catholic answer was given Isaiah 7:14.

So again, the reason why Mary had to remain a virgin during her pregnancy was to fulfill scripture.

PS. This answer really has nothing to do with what came later that the Catholic dogma denies: that is, whether Mary/Joseph consummated their marriage or not (they did), whether Mary took a vow of chastity or not (she didn't), or even whether Jesus was born normally in the normal (human) way (He was). So, try not to derail the same answer that a Catholic, Orthodox, or Protestant would give.

  • Actually, the perpetual virginity of Mary did not originate as a Papal dogma. It was affirmed by all 5 Sees of the Church (not just Rome) at the 5th Ecumenical Council, held in Constantinople in 553, and also affirmed in the writings of numerous eastern Church Fathers outside the See of Rome, including Methodius of Olympus, Cyril of Alexandria, Theodoret, and John of Damascus. It really wasn't even a serious point of dispute until Helvidius introduced doctrine that Mary did not remain a virgin, sometime in the late 4th century. – guest37 Jan 30 '18 at 15:53
  • The 5th EC defined that Mary was mother of God (as to His birth, not His preexistence). At Trent, the Roman Church declared the ever-virgin (EV) dogma (virgin before, during, after Christ's birth). Many disagreed with the EV right from the beginning. Scripture, Tertullian, Africanus, Irenaeus, Clement of Alexandria, and others. Reread your Cyril of Alexandria; let the female virgins glory because of Mary's nine months (from Christ's conception to birth normal), not because of Mary's life. That honor of a virgin life was given to Christ by him. John of D considered birth from Mary's side. – SLM Jan 30 '18 at 19:14
  • The second Capitula of the 5th Ecumenical Council refers to "the holy and glorious Mary, Mother of God and always a virgin". I'd be happy to look at the Fathers you cite if you could provide references. You can find links to writings of the Fathers I cite here. – guest37 Jan 30 '18 at 19:55
  • You will also find affirmation by the See of Rome of the ever-virginity of Mary in Canon 2 of the Lateran Council of 649 - 900 years before the Council of Trent. – guest37 Jan 30 '18 at 20:24
  • Actually, Canons 2, 3, and 4. Canon 3 explicitly condemns those denying the that "her virginity [remained] indestructible even after his birth". – guest37 Jan 30 '18 at 20:50
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The reason for no sex during Mary's pregnancy with Christ was to fulfill prophecy, to make it very clear to all.

Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel. Isa. 7:14

If Mary and Joseph had consummated their marriage prior to Christ's birth, then the prophecy fails.

As well, it would trigger the question about who the father really might have been.

Lastly, Mary and Joseph were betrothed, but not yet married at that time of annunciation. Sex would have been a sin.

  • "Sex would have been a sin." Even assuming they were "married at that time of annunciation," "Sex [still] would have been a sin" for her because she vowed her virginity to God. – Geremia Jan 27 '18 at 3:24
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    The OP is addressed not to Catholics who believe their dogma that Mary was a virgin before, during, and after Christ's birth, but rather to those who believe the virgin conceived and bore Christ to term. Scripture does not tell anyone that she "vowed her virginity to God". You may be thinking of the Infancy Gospel of James wherein it is written her parents vowed her chastity. – SLM Jan 27 '18 at 4:07
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    The marriage ceremony at that time consisted of bringing the bride from her father's home to her husband's home. This is what happened in Mt 1:24, so they were indeed married. – 4castle Jan 27 '18 at 4:10
  • Why all the down votes? The OP question is why Mary remained a virgin after conception to birth of Christ. The answer is to fulfill prophecy (a virgin will conceive and bear a son who is called Emmanuel). The OP has nothing to do with what happened or didn't happen at birth or afterwards. So what specifically is not agreeable to those downers? – SLM Jan 27 '18 at 15:35
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    Luke 2:5 translated is espoused or betrothed. She was given to marriage with or promised to be with Joseph. But they were not yet wed; they were only espoused. See Mt. 1:18 and Luke 1:27. In our culture's terms, they would be engaged to be married, but not yet formally married (consummated). The definition of espoused is at Mt. 1:18 "before they came together", which makes them husband and wife. Joseph then has a dream and the angel says fear not to take Mary as your wife. God grants permission. Joseph knows her not until after the birth of Christ (Mt. 1:25). – SLM Jan 28 '18 at 17:09
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According to Jehovah's Witnesses, Joseph and Mary may have remained abstinent until Jesus' birth in order to avoid casting doubt on who the true father of Jesus was. It also showed great respect for Mary's privilege of bearing God's Son.

The Bible says that Joseph “was righteous.” (Matthew 1:19) For example, he did not have intercourse with his virgin wife until after the birth of Jesus. This prevented any misunderstanding as to who Jesus’ real Father was. For a newly married couple to abstain from intimate relations while living under the same roof could not have been easy, but it showed that they both treasured the privilege of being chosen to raise God’s Son.—Matthew 1:24, 25.

w02 12/15 "Lessons From the Record of Jesus' Birth"

Mary wasn't necessarily required to be a virgin according to Isaiah 7:14 since the Hebrew word used there more broadly translates to "maiden," and can refer to a virgin or a nonvirgin.

Look! The young woman [ft. note: "the maiden"] will become pregnant and will give birth to a son, and she will name him Im·manʹu·el.

Nonetheless, Matthew 1:23 is evidently a quotation of the Septuagint version of Isa. 7:14 which uses the Greek word for "virgin" in making an application of Isa. 7:14. (Insight Vol. 2 - "Virgin")

  • Is there anything you found regarding Jewish law and cleaness/uncleaness and Mary carrying something holy within her? Somewhere in my mind there was a point made about it being improper for her to become unclean according to Jewish law during her pregnancy. – Kris Jan 26 '18 at 23:47
  • @Kris Lev 18:19 says not to have sex during the woman's period, but I'm not aware of any verses which say not to have sex during a pregnancy. – curiousdannii Jan 26 '18 at 23:52
  • @Kris That didn't come up in my research. However, I did find mention of how Jesus would have needed to be a firstborn in order to be the legal heir to David's throne. (Luke 1:32) – 4castle Jan 26 '18 at 23:55
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    @Kris Unless Catholicism teaches that Mary never had a period, the ritual uncleanliness cannot impact her sinlessness etc... – curiousdannii Jan 27 '18 at 1:14
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    @4castle in terms of needing to be the firstborn to be heir to the Davidic line Solomon was neither the first born nor the oldest of David's sons living at the time of his death so I don't see that as necessary. – Belinda Jan 28 '18 at 14:11
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At some point in my studies (being raised by a dad and mom who highly valued spiritual education) I recall a discussion about how Mary and Joseph were spiritual persons who would have been very familiar with Jewish religious traditions and practices.

They were told that what was growing in Mary’s womb was holy. (Matthew 1:20) They would have understood that the protocols that were involved with being ceremonially clean when coming into the holy place (temple) would be fitting for one favored to carry the holiest of God’s possessions, his son, inside her body.

For this reason Mary would have felt it necessary, even mandatory, to maintain herself ritually clean to the fullest extent possible.

The Law given to Moses spelled out certain protocols that had to be followed by persons who were going to temple. Among these was the command that when a couple engaged in sexual activity, they were ceremonially unclean. They were to wash and would not be clean until the evening.

Leviticus 15:18 (NWT)

When a man lies with a woman and has an emission of semen, they should bathe in water and be unclean until the evening.

Knowing this and fully aware that for 9 months she was in effect the bearer of the holiest utensil of God’s temple, Mary would have indeed seen the necessity to refrain from sexual relations with her husband.

Expanding on this school of thought Peter Leithart wrote:

He Did Not Know Her

Joseph did not know his wife until she gave birth to a Son (Matthew 1:25). Why not?

In Matthew’s account, the conception of Jesus is attributed to the “Holy Spirit” (1:20), and Luke makes it explicit that the one conceived by the Holy Spirit is Himself holy: “the holy thing begotten shall be called the Son of God” (Luke 1:35).

Joseph might have reasoned: Since Mary was inhabited by the Spirit, and by the Holy One conceived by the Spirit, she was, or at least her womb was, holy space. If she is holy space, he cannot have sex with her, since by the rules of Torah sex defiled both the man and the woman (Leviticus 15:18). Having sex with Mary during her pregnancy would have been like a leper or a menstruant entering the temple of God. It would have been like having sex in the temple court itself.

If this is the reasoning, it sheds some light on the question of perpetual virginity. Matthew’s phrasing implies that Joseph did have sex with Mary after Jesus was born, and the reasoning above would imply the same. Temples are holy only when the Holy One inhabits them. Once Yahweh abandoned the temple, it was an empty shell for demolition and burning. If Mary was holy because the Holy One lived in her, then His birth exodus from her body would have ended her temporary holiness. She would have reverted to normal “common” status. And Joseph would have known her as his wife. Joseph refrained from sex with Mary because she was the ark, bearing the glory; but only for nine months.

This article by Leithart captures much of what I recall as to why it was necessary for Mary to remain a virgin during the entire course of her pregnancy.

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