Take the 2-minute tour ×
Christianity Stack Exchange is a question and answer site for committed Christians, experts in Christianity and those interested in learning more. It's 100% free, no registration required.

We know the best Book we have is the Bible, which has everything for life that we need to live a perfect life. I would like to know should we stop with Bible and Books that are based on Bible, or may Christians read non-Bible based books that teach good things such as "The Power of positive thinking" etc. They seems harmless written by well known authors like Dale Carnegie, Norman Vincent Peale etc.

share|improve this question
3  
'm not sure I agree that "the Bible... has everything for life that we need to live a perfect life." I think it has everything necessary for salvation, but that's a little different. Anyway, I still think it's a good question :) –  Flimzy Sep 27 '11 at 5:26
    
may be, perfect life in God? :-) –  Benny Sep 27 '11 at 6:06
    
This question was fairly early in the life of the site, so I think it predates most of the FAQ. However, in the current state it seems to run afoul of the "survey of all Christian views on a particular subject" clause. Obviously some Christians love these books and find them helpful while others don't. Perhaps an edit to ask which groups encourage reading these books and why would help? –  Jon Ericson Oct 19 '12 at 16:54
add comment

closed as not constructive by David Stratton, Jon Ericson, Kazark, El'endia Starman Oct 22 '12 at 2:36

As it currently stands, this question is not a good fit for our Q&A format. We expect answers to be supported by facts, references, or expertise, but this question will likely solicit debate, arguments, polling, or extended discussion. If you feel that this question can be improved and possibly reopened, visit the help center for guidance.If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.

4 Answers

up vote 10 down vote accepted

This is opinion only, but I'll throw my two cents in. I'm also not going to add in supporting Bible verses as I'll stick to commonly accepted, cross-denominational concepts that any Christian should be familiar with. (If comments ask for verses, I will come back and edit them in.)


Most of the self-help books that I've read personally are, in retrospect, based on very humanistic concepts, or the popular psychology of the day. However, many of them contain very good ideas mixed in with the psychobabble.

My personal opinion is that there is nothing inherently wrong with reading self-help books, provided that you've got a solid foundation in Biblical doctrine, and are able to discern the good from the concepts that are anti-Biblical.

Many of these books have value, and follow along with Christian teachings. Books on success often advocate following the golden rule - treating your peers, employees, customers, etc, as you'd like to be treated. Or the teach the value of honesty, integrity, etc. None of these are anti-Christian, and all are examples of how God would have us behave anyway.

The biggest pitfall that I an see with these books is that they can further the illusion among the unsaved that following the advice in the books makes them a "good person". Of course, a person has to realize that he or she is lost before they can turn to the Savior for salvation. We can all be better people, but we can never be good enough to earn our own salvation. (If we could, the Cross would not have been necessary.)

Then there are the books that teach outright contradictions to the word of God. Humanistic, or spiritual growth books that point to one new age theology or another. Again, these can be dangerous for obvious reasons. However, I still believe that someone with a grounding in doctrine with the gift of discernment can still read these books and use the knowledge for God's will. the people who fall for these lies need the Savior just as much as anyone else, and you can't refute something you don't know about.

As a parallel to this last once, many Christians study the beliefs of various cults and non-Christian religions in order to learn how to more effectively witness to those involved. It helps to provide a common starting point. Being aware of what's being taught in these "new-agey" books can be valuable for the same purpose.

The bottom line comes down to whether or not you're grounded enough in the Word to understand and discern the truth from the lie.

share|improve this answer
    
+1 "The bottom line comes down to whether or not you're grounded enough in the Word to understand and discern the truth from the lie." This is the most important. –  hellectronic Jun 10 '12 at 9:24
add comment

I would just like to add that some self help books are heavily influenced by eastern mysticism. We should all be aware of that and the threat it poses to a healthy orthodox Christianity.

share|improve this answer
add comment

I'm going to come from a different perspective.

Summary: You can read whatever you want, provided it doesn't take you away from God.


Self-help is a very broad category. You have everything from the Pleasuring: The Secrets of Sexual Satisfaction (PG-13 link there) all the way down to Boundaries for kids.

The problem with saying "All X is bad" is that not everything can be categorized as either "bad" or "good". Also, we, as Christians, basically have the right to do whatever we want, provided that God permits us:

1 Corinthians 10:23 (NIV)
“I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive.

So then the question is: Does God permit us to read X?

In General, yes!

However, we have to make sure to try to have a pure heart--a heart for God. If a book is going to draw us away from God, we should leave it alone. Otherwise, it will be fine.

For example:
I'm sure that the book Pleasuring: The Secrets of Sexual Satisfaction is a fine book. (I couldn't say on my own authority, I haven't read it!) However, if you have problems with lust, that's probably not the book for you. However, in the confines of marriage where lust is not a problem, this book can be helpful and instructional.

Ultimately, we just have to make sure that if we do anything, it brings glory to God. Avoid the books that will pull you away from God (whether Self-Help, Fiction, or Historical) and focus on the books that will actually help you out!


Another side note is that there are actually Christian self-help books out there. Boundaries for kids is an excellent book to help parents learn to raise children and it is written by two Christians and from a Christian perspective (although not explicitly a "Christian" book).

share|improve this answer
    
I do, however, strongly recommend Boundaries for kids. Excellent book--Christian authors. –  Richard Sep 27 '11 at 13:36
add comment

Sure, we may read them. (1 Corinthians 10:23)

But really, why read a productivity self-help book when The Ultimate Productivity blog says it all? And which is a better use of time: reading self-help books on becoming a better person, or actually helping the needy like the Bible tells us to? (James 1:27)

Self-help was suggested to Jesus in the moment of crucifixion.
Jesus chose to help others instead.

Mark 15:29-30 (ESV)
29 And those who passed by derided him, wagging their heads and saying, "Aha! You who would destroy the temple and rebuild it in three days, 30 save yourself, and come down from the cross!"

share|improve this answer
1  
+1. I like your answer. Focus on self is one of those worldly concepts that we need to guard against in the first place. –  David Stratton Sep 27 '11 at 12:06
    
I'll have to add that I'm not against reading non-Christian books at all. Self-help books just seem quite nonsensical to me, and I think they're mostly a waste of time. –  dancek Sep 27 '11 at 15:41
add comment

Not the answer you're looking for? Browse other questions tagged or ask your own question.