Of Whom is God jealous?

Question

Exodus 20:5 NIV

You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me,

If there is only one God, who is God jealous of?

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Edit: Please see this question in hermeneutics about the translation or definition of the passage.

Answer 1

The better question may be "What is it that God is jealous of?" He is righteously jealous of the devotion and affections of His people. This is mirrored in our own lives as a married individual is righteously jealous for the affections and devotion of his or her spouse. Furthermore, a father or mother is righteously jealous for the affections of their children. If their children started calling other men and women "Dad" and "Mom", it would be a tremendous insult to them, because they alone are the ones that have the true parental devotion to their children.

So, God is not jealous of another god or another being, but for the affections of His people.

Answer 2

I don't know about you, but I have seen people get engrossed in things and start excluding their significant others. I know one man who was an alcoholic and another addicted to computer games. In both cases, their significant others (one was married, the other dating) grew upset over this situation — they felt excluded and were jealous of the others on the computer or at the bar. These men were monogamous, but they still incurred jealousy.

From seeing this human jealousy, I can see how the Divine, who has no real rival, can claim a form of "jealousy" when people reduce His role to something trivial.

Answer 3

Imagine you have a child that grumbles anytime you send him on errand but gladly respond to strangers ready to do anything for them.

Imagine having a wife/girlfriend who is always complaining when with you no matter how you pamper her but feel more comfortable and excited being with others even in your presence.

We are God's property, he owns us. He has invested greatly in our past, present and future. And who would make such investment and see another person receive the praises for what they did not do.

Remember Aaron when he made the golden calf? God was very angry and jealous because they gave the glory that belongs to him to the golden calf - something that is far inferior to him.

So also is God jealous when we take sides with Satan, giving him (and his idols) glory, praises etc for what they actually didn't do.

It hurts so much when someone you love doesn't give you attention and gives someone who is inferior to you the attention you deserve or worked for.

So, it is not about who, it is more about why?

Answer 4

According to Paul, God is jealous of His own creation:

For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things.

Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen.—Romans 1:19-25 (ESV)

"Images" references the idolatry found in the Ancient Near East and condemned in Exodus 20 and elsewhere in the Old Testament. Jesus expanded the definition of idolatry to include anything that demands the place of God, which isn't God:

No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other.—Matthew 6:24a (ESV)

The immediate reference, of course, is money, but other worldly things can take God's place as our master:

And others are the ones sown among thorns. They are those who hear the word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches and the desires for other things enter in and choke the word, and it proves unfruitful.—Mark 4:18-19 (ESV)

Conclusion

God is so amazing that He is able to create things that seem worthy of worship. But those things are not worth our time, energy and devotion compared to the surpassing glory of God Himself. God wants us to spend our lives on the one thing that is more valuable than ourselves: Him.

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To illustrate what this might mean, consider the career of Blaise Pascal, mathematician, physicist, inventor, writer, philosopher, and all-around genius. Around the time of his conversion, Pascal wrote a poem called "Fire" that begins:

GOD of Abraham, GOD of Isaac, GOD of Jacob
not of the philosophers and of the learned.
Certitude. Certitude. Feeling. Joy. Peace.
GOD of Jesus Christ.
Deum meum et Deum vestrum.
Your GOD will be my God.
Forgetfulness of the world and of everything, except GOD.

He gave up everything (mostly and most of the time) to focus his thoughts on God—a task that remained unfinished at death. While he was, perhaps, too extreme in his asceticism, I do not believe that he now regrets leaving the world behind him. Personally, I consider Pascal one of my heroes of the faith.